Your Husband's Ex Girlfriend Still Contacts Him

As the title says Your Husband's Ex Girlfriend Still Contacts Him, in this case, what should you do?

It is very frustrating for someone to deal with a strong emotion such as Jealousy, but what causes someone to be jealous? We must always remember Newton's Third Law that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, in this case, a negative reaction. Our responses are sometimes based on the inputs of other people. Some women just cant get themselves over when a relationship ends. This is so sad because most often than not, they live in a sea of misery. And what's next is that they try to keep the line of communication open even when the other party is already committed to another person, in most cases, married. End product? Marriage in distress.

If you are in a situation such as this, what will mostly take up your time is guessing what the ex girlfriend's motives are and for how long your husband will be able to ignore such moves. Whether she's calling him, texting or just simply visiting or saying "Hi", there will always be that threat of something unknown and most people are scared of the things that are not revealed to us.

My question is, why do they do such things? Reality check, you can never have someone who belongs to someone else. So accept it and move on. So in short, they cannot accept the fact that they lose.

So now, what to do. Simple. Ignore it and keep loving your husband and who knows the ex person might find another person to bug. We have to remember that relationships are internal and there should be no external force that will cause the two of you to break. There will always be someone who is willing to get what you have, so before it happens, protect it by shielding that person with love and security. Some people are not happy with what they have and with who they are with, that is not your problem, let them be and soon, if ever they will  find out that things are not bound to be theirs, they will eventually give up. So while you are in this situation, keep yourself calm and composed. Never ever stoop down to the person's level. Understand that the person might also be in a situation wherein acceptance is a planet away. Some people are just not made to understand that there are things that are not meant to be and you just have to accept it.